Alpha males tend to get the first choice when it comes to ladies, they also tend to possess better job prospects because employers value their leadership skills. To become an alpha male yourself, you need to know the alpha male traits that they utilize.

1. Relax! When you're sat down, sit back and loosen up. Spread yourself out and support your arm over the back of the chair next to you. Yet better, you should put one foot on the knee of your other leg to make yourself appear extremely cool.

2. Have you noticed that when you're uneasy your voice speeds up and goes higher in pitch? You ought to do the opposite of this at all times. Slow down when you speak and lower your tone. You should in actual fact be alternating the rhythm of your tone to make yourself sound more exciting instead of talking in mono-tone. When you put all these in place you'll easily be able to cut out the "ums" and "ers" which turn people off from you.

3. At all times look people in the eyes when you talk to them. This seems awfully obvious but many many people neglect doing this. Looking people in the eyes exhibits your self-confidence, that you're sincere and in control.

4. Slow down your movements. People make swift jumpy actions when they are panicky or anxious which is not something that you want to be doing.

5. Stop fidgeting! This more than anything else will show that you're nervous. You will do it without even realising, so find everyplace secure to put your hands and keep them there.

6. Do not take yourself too seriously! If somebody creates a joke at your cost then this is most likely out of affection. Laugh at yourself and if you could add to the self depreciation with an additional story about yourself, then you'll appear incredibly self-confident which is the most likable of alpha male traits.