There are many occasions in life when we have felt uncomfortable while talking to others. In business, one has to learn to deal with all kinds of people, individuals with different values, interests, opinions, and business styles, because the way in which we handle these situations will reflect on us. There is always a choice; you can look at tough moments as obstacles, or as opportunities to build your character.

Do you know of a job in ____ field? Filling in those blanks and getting answers is the new life of networking groups across the country. There are plenty in existence and if you are inclined to do so we'll talk about starting your own. A networking group is a long name for what is simply a group of people all with the same goal who are willing to help each other get there.

* Posture - Position your head and body squarely in line with the other person. By facing towards a person, you show genuine interest in what they have to say. Don't stand too close or to far away when you talk to another person. Be respectful of personal space. Remember to stand and sit up straight when speaking - don't slouch. * Don't cross your arms or legs - This is the biggest mistake when it comes to negative body language. You come across as defensive or guarded when crossing your arms or legs. Keep your body open when communicating with others.

* Nod your head once in awhile- When a person is speaking directly to you, nod once in awhile to send the message that you are listening. Don't over do it and bob your head every few seconds. * Slow down your actions - Whether you are walking or talking, slow down your actions. It gives others the impression of ease and confidence (especially when addressing a crowd).

They do not have to be out of work and looking for a job because this person gets their fulfillment from using their connections to help others. The connector is the quarterback of your team. You may be the coach and the one putting together the game plan but this is the person you want calling the plays.

- Know the teaser There is a point when teasing becomes bullying. When this happens, wait until you have the opportunity to talk to the person and tell him how he makes you feel; be honest and serious.