It is in your interest to become the alpha male in your crowd as you'll be more likely to get the best women who hang around you as everyone tends to look up to the alpha male. In addition when you become the alpha male you are more liable to have improved career opportunities as employers rate their leadership abilities.

To learn to become the alpha male take a look at the tips beneath.

1. Lead! This is the single principal tip I could offer you! When you think about it, leading is just another name for organising. Instead of letting other people in your group do all the leg work in organizing your nights out at the local bars or days out to theme parks, why not arrange it yourself? This puts you in power and your buddies will on impulse look to you. It is as easy as that! Try employing language like "lets" do this instead of "would you like" to do this.

2. Don't let anything effect you in a negative way. You have to try and stay calm and collected at all times, therefore just sit back and loosen up!

3. Talk slowly, calmly and with enthusiasm. When you talk try alternating your voice pitch and tonality so that you don't sound too mono-tone. By speaking gradually you'll come across as being more positive and assured. This will as well make it simpler for you to cut out the "ums" and "ers".

4. Look people in the eyes when you are talking to them. This may sound evident to you, but pay notice to how many people do not look you in the eyes when they speak to you. This will give you an edge!

5. Your movements have to be slow and composed. Do not make any unexpected or jumpy movements that will show you up as being anxious or uncomfortable.