You are always able to hear about how you being angry can affect you. However, the people around you are affected by your anger as well.

How your anger hurts the ones that are around you

They need to keep their distance from you...

There are people who are concerned about you. At least most of you that is.

There is a problem. Believe it or not, there are people who love and would like to be around you. These people will think that you are someone special. However, they stay away to protect themselves from you. The thing is, you are capable of harming them, or you may just be an anti social person. And because of this they stay away for their own safety and emotional strength.

When you are angry you can cause the people who love you to feel as if they are not even alive inside.

Angry people make other people angry

Another reason why smart people would want to stay away from you when you are angry is because your anger would without a question make them angry too.

Just like happiness, sadness, and disappointment, anger is just an emotion. And because it is just an emotion, it is easily transferred from one person to another. That is just the way that emotions work, emotions are contagious.

So this means that if I know that you are angry and I go to where you are for only five minutes, I run the risk of having my entire day messed up. How smart a person would that make me, when I know what is likely to happen.

Angry people can mess up a child for life

You might know by now that children learn the actions of angry people in a very short amount of time.

If your child watches you and learns how to act angry like you do, you have just made his life that much more complicated. The reason is because unless he unlearns destroying behavior he will only learn how to make the destroying behavior worse.

What you will end up with is a little person who when grown, is likely to experience every problem that people get from having uncontrolled anger. The only difference is that his problems will happen to him while he is younger. Which also means that anger will have a greater impact on him when he becomes an adult than it did for the person he learned to be angry from?

Stop it don't let it happen anymore. Control your anger. The anger management classes you get here will see you over the hard parts of getting your anger under control.