Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back - A Game Plan
I recall how ashamed I was and I felt rejected. I recall the desperate feelings, without hope, and feeling alone. The pain was so horrible that I was afraid to wake up in the morning and go to my job.
Although I had ideas initially to cry, threaten him with suicide, beg him to come back to me, I knew deep down that this behavior would only make him feel disgusted with me, so I made a concerted effort to stay away from these options.
Taking a trip for about two weeks was my next option. I did this to get away from anything that reminded me of my ex-boyfriend. I started feeling better, realizing that my life can continue on without him. I felt like this even after crying the first few days. When returning home, I felt positive about my future. Next thing I know, my ex-boyfriend is at my doorstop, looking like he hadn't slept in days and having red eyes.
He felt like he had lost me forever when I was not able to be reached. He wanted to tell me that he made a big mistake.
He said that he could not imagine his life without me . But then I was in an altogether shocking mode as I had not expected this. Instead I had already thought him as my past. Hence I was still not ready to forgive him for leaving just few days before our marriage. I did not want to believe him.
The point is that men like a challenge. By making me unattainable to him after our breakup, this made him see me as more desirable in his eyes. I was a sure thing to him in the past, however after the breakup; I was someone he wanted desperately.
Your ex boyfriend might still have feelings for you , but he doesn't acknowledge it . According to a survey 90% of people who break up still have strong affection towards their ex partner. It is you who has to make him realize this feeling. Hence you should stay away from him for a while and then see how he would realize that he cannot live without you.
